Long distance relationships are very challenging. They require a lot of patience, constant and honest communication as well as a dedication to keep things going on a daily basis. Technology is helping us by doing its part with instant messenger, Facebook, webcams, smartphones and many others. Eventually, it is us that takes full advantage of these tools. A good long distance relationship advice has a lot to do with maintaining good communication and a very interesting vibe going.

• Keeping our partners sexually interested in us, even when there is distance involved, is the most important aspect of maintaining a long distance relationship. We need to use everything that we have available such as: voice chat, video chat, instant messenger, Facebook etc. All these can be use to keep that sexual tension.

• Being unpredictable is somewhat uncomfortable but nonetheless necessary. Couples are trying to make things even between them, and by doing so they kill the relationship. Don’t be worried about being different than your lover. Create a list with you questions to ask a guy / girl and use those questions to initiate interesting conversations.

• Never give up on yourself no matter how in loved you are. Eventually, the relationship will cool down, even if it’s a long distance relationship, and when that happens your real individual personality will be the ones that will keep things going.

It is indeed very difficult to maintain a long distance relationship when there is distance between you and your partner. Unlike normal relationship, where you could get away with several weeks of non-communication, in a long distance relationship things are different: you always need to maintain that communication and interest in each other.

Couples tend to worry to much about the little things but having a broad perspective about your lives as a couple will eventually lead you to a healthy relationship, even when you have to get through a difficult period such as a long distance relationship.